Some of us spend so much time wanting to be loved by someone and to find love, that we end up making it our life's primary purpose to do so. Every time we look around and look at people in love, we feel sad because we feel we don't have what they do - which then makes us feel alone and lonely. Looking for love so desperately and making it the most important priority in our life only ends up creating a void in our heart which grows bigger with time, making us feel empty and incomplete, which honestly is one of the worst things we could do to ourselves.
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I think some of us really need to understand that we don't need anyone to feel loved or complete, we don't need anyone to make us happy.— we just need ourselves. At the end of the day unless we learn to be happy alone, we shouldn't look for love, because if we find love with that void still in our heart— we'll only end up sucking away the energy of the other person since all we'll ever do is be dependent on them to make us feel good. We'll end up sucking the good parts of a relationship which could have been beautiful otherwise. And I think that's why they say to not fall in love with someone unless you fall in love with yourself first
~Itish Pande
(@writix// Creator of the BeownieBlend Newsletter)
